They say it doesn’t anger or boast; it isn’t selfish or spiteful.
They say all human interaction is driven by one of two emotions – love or fear.
Today we celebrate the former. Even if you happen not to have live-in-lovin pseudo-scheduled at your crib tonight, chances are someone loves you nonetheless. Your friends do; your family does. We can celebrate love how ever it presents itself, no? And we can be fortified by it no matter who gives it, right?
bell hooks said love is an act of will: “the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth.” Love is action, selfless action. It takes work and commitment to interact with folks from a position of love, as the act of loving is often tested and challenged and stretched. But if it’s real, then it’s resilient. And, like a good spanx, love snaps back.
Just last weekend, I celebrated my birthday with a group of folks who, at one time or another (including now), couldn’t be gathered in the same room together. But time and love heals. And as a result, I was treated with the best rendition of the Black version of Happy Birthday I’ve ever heard. Thank y’all for that. 🙂
I’m convinced that if you lead with love, you’ll get it back. Treat each other right, and love one another. Because, yeah, karma can be a bitch. But she can also be the homie who shows up to your party with good liquor and barbecued brisket. It all depends on where your heart’s at.